I ♥ Coco Legxurious

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Mar

1/4 of my summer look…I’m getting dolled.
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4
Mar

Great hair, great fit, great attitude!
19
Feb

"I BUST THE WINDOWS OUT HIS CAR"

Ok I’m a bit confused. Do men secretly go crazy or get hooked on the woman who slashes his tires, throws blue paint on the front of his lawn, contacts all the women in his phone book to make sure he’s not sleeping with them, busts his car windows; you get my drift? If women are displaying this psycho behavior does this let the man know the female feels 150% more stronger about him and their relationship?…If the answer is yes, then i’ll finally accept my “single & lovin’ it” i.d. because I know no matter the circumstances…I have to stay DRAMA FREE! (Well except for that one time when I was in a big cheating scandel and I cut his hair off in his sleep. Fun Times!
17
Feb

Love Wars

He told me he loved me and completely turned the tables. He chased me, I ran, he caught me, I tumbled, and now I’m in love. I have to find a way to flip the script—> Operation: Tango. Let the love wars begin.
17
Feb

ON TO THE NEXT ONE

Pamcakes: 2010 will be a good year, i'm calling it now :)

me: i haven't mentioned anything about a move to Poptart...and he's really starting to like me :-) i know its messed up but...its life. I stayed over there this past sunday and he laid me across his chest to fall asleep...it was nice...haven't done that in like...EVER. oh yes i agree...2010 is our time!

Pamcakes: ah, young love. it makes me want to puke how happy i am. i'm not used to it, lol

me: lol

Pamcakes: i'm excited, now to find a new job and my life will be damn good. so what are you gonna do w/ Poptart?

me: i feel like Jay-Z on his song "On to the next one"...time for the next thing...its weird...i'm just gonna tell him whats up...he's not gonna like it i'm sure but he keeps asking me to be his girlfriend and i'm not entertaining him as being serious b/c 1. i know i'm leaving atl. 2. i think he's doing it to keep me around cuz he thinks i'm dating someone else

Pamcakes: maybe he's doing it b/c......he wants you to be his gf

me: lol...i thought about that too..maybe he really does want me as his gf...I'm gonna tell him this weekend...face to face.

Pamcakes: just sayin...lol

me: no but i've always looked at him as a serious bf candidate ...

Pamcakes: timing is such a bitch

Pamcakes: its seems like you both are testing each other

Pamcakes: relationships are hard, lol

Pamcakes: esp turning a friend w/ benefits into a bf. it can be done, but it's hard

me: heck ya...so i've been sticking with this method...it seems to be going in my favor...but i'm definitely bout to through a bone in my plan with this moving bit...lol.

Pamcakes: yeahhh..good luck mane!
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16
Feb

The Pleasure Principle

Today a coworker became my best friend instantaneously when he handed me a three-disc Janet Jackson greatest hits compilation. I must admit, I’ve loved Janet Jackson for quite some time and as an eighties baby its only right. I mean- I practically knew every move to her dance videos and every lyric to each song (minus the Velvet Rope album, I couldn’t get on that boat). Needless to say, I was pretty amped to have the cd’s…now I can go home and practice the dance moves! To coincide with my happiness, I decided to view one of my favorite Janet videos- The Pleasure Principle. As I watched and sang along, I started to pay very close attention to the lyrics- something I didn’t really try to understand at age 10- and realized that this song is something we as women go through in most of our relationships with men.

In the song Janet recognizes that the relationship is no longer what it seems, in actuality it was never really for her. Guys have a tendency to sell women a dream relationship, but its what happens after the harsh reality sets in that makes all the difference. Some women (and I can admit to being one of them) tend to turn to/rely on the “pleasure principle” when things go sour in a relationship. They look to find some kind of pleasure/happiness in their situation…to run from or avoid the pain. Here’s the true definition of the pleasure principle:…

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16
Feb